Dating in Colombia can be pleasant and safe if you follow basic rules. Below - practical tips to lower risk and avoid dangerous situations.
First meeting - busy public place only
Agree on a café, bar, or restaurant in a lively area (for example El Poblado in Medellín, Chapinero or Usaquén in Bogotá). Avoid trips to unknown places with someone you barely know. Do not invite them home or go to theirs until you feel confident.
Drinks and food
Never leave drinks unattended and do not accept open cocktails or food from people you do not trust. Scopolamine and other drugs are used in Colombia - vigilance here is critical. Order your own drinks and watch that they are not swapped.
Tell someone your plans
Tell a friend who you are meeting and where. Share live location if needed. Agree on a check-in call or message during the evening. You will feel calmer, and someone can react if something goes wrong.
Trust your gut
If a situation feels uncomfortable or suspicious - leave. Do not worry about seeming rude: your safety matters more. Carry enough cash or phone battery to call a ride and leave at any moment.
Online dating
Before meeting, a video call helps confirm the person matches the profile. Check social media. Do not send money or personal documents to people you just met. Trust-based scams happen.